Men vs. Women

They are opposite poles. They are never gonna be similar to each other. Here's something I researched a lot on..

Starting with Men:
1. Men think- Guys seem to think more about everyday things than girls do. Its often said that girls think too much about their clothes or looks but many a times, that is only they think about. A guy would think about any and everything, starting from how he looks to how should he say something to what effect would that have on others. They are always deep in thought probably thinking what the next step would be. A lot of men I've met are always thinking and the expression has stuck on their face and looks like they are thinking even when they are not.

2. Men flaunt- These days, more then women, guys flaunt. They do not flaunt their clothes or something but they flaunt about their activities. They are quite vocal about what they do, what they've done and what they wanna do. This may be probably because they do not care about somebody thinking about the same.

3. Men are stupid- This is because men do not know what or how the girl sitting in front of them wants him to speak. They do not know what to say and what not to even after thinking about it so much. They may even be aware of this fact, but they never try to overcome this fault of theirs.

4. Men are chauvinists- This is a well-known fact that men always think that they are superior to women. These days, however, the chauvinism is at a different level. Now, men do not think they are superior but they believe that they can get away with anything while women can't.

5. Men may be chivalrous- Very few men I've met were chivalrous. That is probably because they do not think it to be right to be courteous to a lady as 'she's an equal'. This is where the contradiction comes. When they have to do something for a lady, the lady is supposed to be equal to them and when the girl has to do something, she cant coz she's meant to be meek.

6. Men are immature-Men do not ever know what to do. They tend to believe everything they do/say is right when its not so. Men think that they can do whatever they want to, say whatever they wish at the cost of looking stupid.

Coming to women now

1. Women are bitches- They love to bitch about any and every person they can lay their hands, no matter how the other person may be. They can bitch about their best friend, their boyfriends, their parents and their brothers n sisters. They just cant get enough of it. However, they also love to say that they never bitch. yeah right!!

2. Women are attention-seekers-Women love to be attended to. They cant stand someone ignoring them. They'd try all means to get into the picture, by getting themselves sick, crying, and doing what not. They just want all the attention and not just from the guys but also their girl friends.

3. Women are mature- Its a well known fact that women mature earlier than men do. They know what to speak and when to speak. They know how to behave at a majority of places.

4. Women love to gossip-This is different from bitching. They love to talk about everybody else's affairs, break ups, patch ups, flings, results et al. They can start gossiping even if they do not know the person whom they are gossiping with. They just need a place and person to do so.

5. Women are dumb-They would do all sorts sorts of stupid things, like deleting her boyfriends all scraps and messages when there's a fight. They take things too much to their hearts too soon. Some things may be too dear to them to do that but women like to FEEL everything they see, hear or are subjected to.

6. Women flaunt- Women flaunt their clothes and accessories. They dont have enough going in their head which they can flaunt. All they ever talk about are clothes and stuff so unimportant that men eventually stop taking notice.

* There are exceptions everywhere so if you don't agree to what I say, either you don't want to accept or you are the exception!! Enjoy!!

Nobody

Here's a little piece I wrote sometime back. No great words, just a simple poem I wrote when I was sad.

Nobody to talk to,
Nobody to care,
Nobody to say,
" I'm always there"

Nobody to wonder,
Nobody to ask,
Nobody to say,
"The friendship will last"

Nobody to smile,
Nobody to cheer,
Nobody to say,
"Wish you were here!"

-Shivani

The good ol' days!

Last night, bhai was chatting with his friends on conference and i missed something. About an year back, me and my friends used to do that very frequently. We talked about anything and everything. Sometimes talking crap and sometimes we used to be really productive and made entire list of colleges we needed to apply to and sorts. Of course now all that is gone. But i still miss it sometimes. Probably those were some of the days when i had good fun with them.

I don't think anybody misses those talks, more so because they are busy with new friends. i do not blame them coz they are in a new world altogether now and it is a bit natural to move on in life. And since i'm the only one left, i am bound to feel that ways. Not that i miss it too often or something but i do sometimes.

Wish we could do that again.. but i'm just wishing and probably i won't even like it if we do that again, because things, people and priorities must have definitely changed. So its perfectly alright.

Hope everybody gets what they deserve in life.. Good luck!!

P.S. Does it feel like I'm sad or something? Lemme think.. I'm not. coz i'd like to remeber the good times and would love to forget the bad 'uns..

LIfe at Gargi summed up!!

This one's a couplet I wrote on the last day of college to put the life at college into words.. I would like to believe that it sums up the entire thing.

There have been fights,
There have been tears,
There have been smiles,
There have been cheers,
All i can say now is that,
I'm gonna miss these years.


Frankly, I'm not the kinds who'd write big words et al. I like to put it simple and straight. Like it or leave it ;) okay don't leave it..

Hoping for a great day ahead!!

Shivani

A million thoughts

A million thoughts run through my head,
As i lay awake on my bed,
How would life have been,
HAd i never met u.

there r things to be said
and things better left unsaid,
no matter what life holds,
i love it the way it goes.

some changes to go with it,
some moments to go in,
some breaths to be taken away
some people to cherish.

not everday do we get to meet ppl like u
not everyday that we get such moments,
but there r times which tell u
what life holds for u.

I thought of you!!

I dreamt of you last night,

and wished you were there,
all this while when I was alone,
I wish you would care.

I thought of you in the morning,
and wished you would call,
To talk to me just once,
and settled it all.

I saw you in the evening,
and wished you saw me too,
a small smile, a handshake,
were all you could do.

Sometimes, all it takes is a smile to put all the differences between people aside. Give that smile to the one you miss. And if you cant meet him, just send a message, a email or a scrap. Never let ego come between those people who were once your friends. You may tell others that it doesn't hurt, but I'm sure it does. Deep down, you realize that you lost a friend, a partner.. And if he/she cant take the step, you should. And i assure, that person is going to love it and who knows, you might become the best of mates. And even if that doesn't happen, at least you wont be pestered by their thoughts anymore!! :)

When you know other people, you know yourself. Your worth is by your friends and how you keep them. Its not about how you make friends, its how you maintain your friendship with them!!

Go ahead and take that step!! You'll feel much better..

I regret..

More than the things i regret doing, i regret not doing things, not saying things.

Here's a list of a few things i regret..

• First of all i regret not taking up commerce in my class 11th. Wish i did, coz then i would have been much better placed in life.


• i regret not taking admission in that colg. life would have been easier.


• i regret not being able to find the right people for friends. the journey would have been better.


• i regret not getting out of the car that day. things would have improved.


• i regret not saying things to her when she hurt me. she would have learnt her lesson sooner.


• i regret not clarifying things with people. we would still be able to see each other in the eye.


• i regret not doing that one chapter from which 50% of the questions came in the exam. would have given me more marks.


• i regret not seeing that question i left. would have given me more marks again.


• i regret not understanding things what people said them to me, sooner. would have told them a thing or two.


• i regret not speaking at the desired time and moment.


• i regret letting people talk about me behind my back.


• i regret not bouncing back when i should have.


• i regret not slapping her when i she said absurd things about me.


• i regret being a dumbass when it came to friends.


• i regret trusting females with friendship. they just dont understand it.


• i regret i trusted people more than they deserved to be.

Thats it for now. I would add more as and when required. If you feel you know a few more, leave a comment.

Love,

Shivani