Random Thoughts

Sometimes, I just love to just sit back and enjoy the surroundings and think about my past, my present and future. And the only thing I realise is that no matter how much i try, i never am able to keep a check on everything that's happening in my life.

I dont say that i've lost control on my life, but then there are some things in your life which you cant control. No matter how much you want to, there might be some people who do have a control over your life and you have to agree to what they say. Though they might do it in your favour only, but then its sad to realize that other people are taking decisions on your behalf and you have to (sometimes) agree half-heartedly.

Now, when you sit back and relax, all kinds of things come to your mind.. the good, the bad and the ugly. No matter how much you try to keep out the ugly, they remain at the back of your mind and come up when least expected. Its upto you to let which thoughts take priority.
You can think of the good things, the good moments in your life, those you can cherish forever..
and leave out those that make you weak.

I, for one, like to remember all of them..the good, the bad and the ugly. becoz i like to learn from them and the bad and the ugly donot make me weak. they make me strong. As I mentioned in my earlier post, there are things I regret not doing, rather than doing. And when there are things you haven't done, you cant learn from them, you learn from not doing them.

If I didnt do something, it makes me realise what I missed because of that or what consequence it might have had and helps me think over my decisions. It makes me a better person. Things that I didnt do, also make me realise that sometimes, things unsaid can not only sour relationships but may also sometimes sweeten them and improve your rapport with people.

So its all in all a win-win situation. And I believe that something like this is the best thing to happen to anybody.

I read this somewhere and it truly holds good "Give females friendship and they treat it like glass, even when there's a slight crack, it gone forever. Give males friendship, and they treat it like football, they play around it so often but then no matter the differences, it still is in one piece"

Loadsa love..

Shivani

Disclaimer: These are my random thoughts. I haven't read through the article again, so pls ignore the small mistakes. These thoughts may or may not hold good for others.